If you’re cis and reading this, yes it’s true, trans people actually don’t need cis people to date and find love. I know it’s been in the news feeds over the past year about TERF, and gay trans bashers speaking out why they don’t want to date a trans person. If anyone is listening let me say my piece, “Who said I wanted to date you?” Despite these ignorant comments by transphobic, often LGB people, let me clarify; the majority of trans people are pansexual, like gender, sexuality is and can be fluid. So not all trans people are running after cis people, most of us are running from them for various reasons. Trans people are a multitude of sexualities or none at all, so that leaves a smaller percentage than many TERF’s fantasize about, that are seeking relations with cis-gender people. While a lot of issues being trans dating another trans apply as well, it’s safe to say the level of anxiety is greatly reduced, but still, we are here to give ideas on what not to do.